FRIENDSHIP

the weeks are getting shorter...the days are getting shorter...this is the time we wish there was more than 24 hours in a day. it's scary how fast time flies. before we know it, we're gonna be graduated..working..married..with kids...lol...

this week has been somewhat "peaceful". no explosions..no breakdowns... tuesday after CF, few of us got pretty high. i dunno man!! we kindda got over-hyper! :P people involved- Becky, Esther, Lenard, & I. havent laughed like that in a while. :) was refreshing!! i guess it all started when becky n i were trying to make up our minds bout whether to go to BOTB in melaka.
we did 4 things to help us decide (from "one-two-jus"ing to counting tiles to...ahem* sensored!....HAHAHHA..only those involved will know).. well, weirdly, ALL 4 times the answer was YES! sigh* must be fated to go. BUT only for our 3 beloved friends Justin, Jason & Vijay.. yeah man!! they're gonna get 1st place!! :D

met up with an old friend who's back from UK for hols yesterday. was a real spontaneous thing. but it turned out to be quite a fun day-pool, bishi bashi (i got thrashed!), chillin' at Arios TWICE.. haven't seen him for more than a year. & surprisingly, after all the crap we've been thru (lotsa misunderstanding & feud between friends), we got along really well yesterday. think we've both matured since the last time we were close. the chatting online bit must've helped when we got in touch again few months back.

received a call from a friend's dad last night. was really grieved by it. knowing what this friend & his dad is going through leaves me feeling so helpless...all i could do was PRAY hard...asking God to do something...comfort them..strengthen them... sigh* i just gotta trust God that He'll work ALL things out for GOOD for those who love Him.

going back to the previous paragraph..speaking bout misunderstandings with friends...last night i led CHUP cg into a discussion about problems we face in friendships & relationships. i hope it benefited everyone...opening some of our eyes to problems that we may not face but our friends do. ALL of us face different problems, because we're ALL made different. a conclusion that was made last nite:
1) Learn to admit our feelings & to talk about them
2) DO not gossip
3) Allow for differences of opinion
4) Be quick to FORGIVE

if we allow these petty reasons & differences to break us up, we're just making Satan very happy. so, learn to accept each other for who they are. if God, who is perfect, can accept US, why can't WE accept each other?